A few days
ago, I was sitting in the backseat of my friend’s car when the song, Same Love,
came on the radio. Now normally, when
I’m driving, I change the channel pretty quickly when I hear this song come
on. But before you start to judge me,
let me at least say, I do this with a lot of songs on the radio, not because
I’m super righteous and refuse to listen, but just because…I don’t know…the
songs on the radio aren’t that good these days.
And they get over played like crazy.
Anyways, so when Same Love came on, my friend asked if I liked the song,
and I immediately said, “No.” I’m not
sure if he even finished his question before I answered. I could tell my response wasn’t received very
well. I don’t really blame him; I think
I said it pretty forcefully without even realizing it. As a self-proclaimed conservative Christian,
it’s probably given that the song makes me feel uncomfortable, which is why my
reaction was so strong. But then I
thought, maybe before I dismiss the song, I should read the lyrics and really
try to understand what Mr. Macklemore is saying. So today, during my drive home from work, I
heard the song on the radio and decided not to change the channel. What follows is my train of thought...
My
analysis isn’t very comprehensive, nor can I say that I understand most of what
he’s saying. In one part, it even seems
like he, himself, is unsure of what he’s saying (“And God loves all his
children is somehow forgotten, but we paraphrase a book written
thirty-five-hundred years ago. I don't know.”).
I thought it was kind of funny that he said “I don’t know.” I also don’t understand how a man who seems
to be criticizing the convictions of a people who follow an outdated, thirty
five hundred year old book, still thinks it makes sense to use portions of this
book for his own agenda (“Love is patient, love is kind…”). That just boggles my mind. Anyways…the point of this blog isn’t to
address the logical flaws I see in some leftist thinking or to argue my right
wing conservative stance. The point of
this blog is to address how I feel about this song as a Christian and to offer
some thoughts to other Christians out there who may feel conflicted as I do
about so controversial a topic
I should
state now that all thoughts from this point on are given from the perspective
that practicing homosexuality is a
sin, the same way that lying, stealing, cheating, sexual adultery, pride,
greed, etc. are all sins that merit the same punishment from a perfectly just
God. I’m not going to go so far as to
say that being homosexual is purely a choice.
But engaging in homosexual behavior is a choice, and I believe, a sin,
in the same way that being tempted is not a sin, yet acting on that temptation
is.
As
Christians, we must all remember that we all deserve death because we are by
nature sinful beings, and there is no way we can bridge the gap between
ourselves and a holy God. I hope I am
correct in my theology when I say that because God is holy, he must punish
evil, unless the price of that sin is somehow paid for. And that’s where Jesus comes in to the
picture. In God’s loving mercy, knowing
that we cannot ourselves bridge the gap, He bridged the gap for us, sending His
son to pay the price for all humanity for all time. Jesus' sacrifice on the cross was the
ultimate act of redemption for a world bound by its sin. Through His death, the debt of our sin was paid,
and God’s criterion for justice was satisfied.
But the good news does not stop there!
Not only was our debt paid, but we were offered the answer to a new
life, a life in which we are no longer ruled by our sinful hearts, but are
given a new heart from above so that we may live as a new creation. Because Jesus’ life did not end in
death...though He took on the sin of the world, death had no hold on him. By conquering death and rising to life, He
showed us His victory over sin, the same victory that we can share in when we
choose to believe in who He is and His power to save us.
I
want to say for the record that not supporting same-sex marriage is not
equivalent to hatred of homosexuals or thinking of them as lesser human
beings. Shocking, right? I know.
Maybe it’s because, in our world today, who you are is so closely linked
to the way you live. If you disagree
with the way a person lives, you are being intolerant; tolerance means you
accept their lifestyle. But many
instances in Jesus’ life show that He both loved sinners, but was intolerant of
their sinful living, calling them to sin no more. Loving someone does not mean being okay with
the sin in their lives. To me, it seems
that Jesus’ love was rooted in genuine concern and care for sinners, coupled
with a desire to see them turn away from their self-destructive lifestyles.
“But
Kristina, how can you say you love them but then reject who they are? If homosexuality is not a choice, it is part
of who they are. How can you oppose
that?” As a Christian, I believe we should reject “who we are.” Jesus says in Mark 7 that what defiles a man
comes from his heart. “For from within,
out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder,
adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride,
foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a
person.” If our heart is who we are,
then it seems clear that Jesus calls us to reject this heart. He says in the next chapter: “If anyone would
come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” Jesus has said that we are by nature sinful -
that out of our hearts comes evil. And
He has said to deny, not follow, who
we are. We are called to follow Him, not our own hearts. But what is the point of denying
ourselves? By rejecting who we are as
sinners and soaking in who Jesus is, we allow Him to transform us to be more
than who we are. We must hold on to that
promise - that God is continually molding us to be more and more like His
Son. As we continually choose to deny
ourselves to follow Him, we allow Him to show us that we are not our sin, but
new people who can overcome sin just as Jesus overcame the grave. Do you believe that you are more than your
sin? Or do you hold on to the lie that
your sin is what defines you? I know I
struggle with this a lot. But be
reminded: if you have chosen to follow Jesus,
you are a new creation who can win the war over sin because Jesus already has.
If
you’re not a Christian, and you’re reading this, first, I want to say thanks
for hearing me out this far. Second, I
want to ask you: how are you doing? Maybe you’re doing just fine, and you are
content with your life as it is. Or
maybe, deep down, you feel as though something in your life is lacking. I want to encourage you that if you’re
feeling this way, don’t ignore it. God
is tugging at your heart and asking you to consider Him. Jesus can and will fill whatever void you may
be feeling. He says in John 8:8, “I came
that they may have life and have it abundantly.” What does having life abundantly look like or
mean? I’m not too sure myself, but it
definitely sounds good. I think that if
you let God in, He will be continually showing you what this means.
Though
there are many things I don’t understand about or agree with in Macklemore’s
song, there is one thing that he is (perhaps unintentionally) right about. The chorus says: “I can’t change, even if I
tried, even if I wanted to.” At first, I
thought, what a terrible outlook on life as a Christian, settling for who you
are as a sinner. But then I thought…this
guy is so right, even though he probably doesn’t mean to be. Because it’s true. We can’t change our sinful selves, even
though we want to and even though we try.
Only Jesus has the power to change us.
And we can be sure that if the power to change comes from Him, we will
see change. So thanks, Macklemore, for
reminding me that I can’t change myself, even though I want to. Thanks for reminding me that my only hope in
this life is Jesus. And what a sure hope
that is.
